Memoirist, Poet and Man of Letters: RICHARD HOFFMAN
By Emily Pineau
“Assure them that when I had
nothing to say I said nothing,” poet Richard Hoffman imagines saying to a eulogist in his poem
“Instructions”. On the other hand, Richman
Hoffman has had a lot to say throughout his life. Not only is he a poet, but also he is an
essayist, fiction writer, and a memoirist.
During his appearance at Endicott College, Hoffman shared a piece of his
new memoir and read a selection of his poems.
One of my favorite lines that he read was, “What could I possibly want
from you that would not undo the whole world as it is?,” from his poem, “Winter
Psalm”. In fact, in every poem that Hoffman
read I was able to take an important message or a remarkable line with me. This
made me think about how I hope to leave a piece of me with my own readers as
well.
Hoffman also read an excerpt from
his new memoir, “Love and Fury”, which shows how he dealt with life when it
threw him a loop and illustrates the conflicted character of his father. A section of the reading that stood out to me
was when Hoffman’s father was trying to apologize to him and his brothers about
not being there for them in the past. “…I want to talk with my sons”, Hoffman’s
father announced; “As if we were not the sons he was referring to”, Hoffman narrated. I like how Hoffman points out that “sons”
sounds like it is a separate entity from him and his brothers. The word “sons” creates a wall between the
father and his sons, which is an interesting aspect of this piece that I admire. Hoffman also
reflects on how his family had “supper” while the others had “dinner”. This is a subtle distinction of one side of the tracks to the other. It is almost as though he gives these words
personalities, which makes his writing really come to life.
After Hoffman read, Professor Doug
Holder asked him what his opinion was about exaggerating events in a
memoir. Hoffman paused for a moment,
picked up his memoir, and held it up.
“This book put a man in jail…where he was murdered.
—
Now what happens if I had exaggerated?” The whole room was silent. This
statement that he made really made me think about how powerful it is to write
about your life, and how much value those words hold when you deem them as
being true. Hoffman also pointed out,
“If you don’t bare witness to your life, then someone else will, and you wont
like it.” I have always thought about
how others would perceive my life if they just went by pictures, and thoughts
from people I am close with or not close with.
I want to have a sense of security knowing that my life is accounted for
and that I said what I have to say. Writing about your own life is a way to
take control of it.
---Emily
Pineau
***** Emily Pineau is an English major at Endicott College.
Her poetry and prose have appeared in the Endicott
Review, The Somerville News, and
is upcoming in Ibbetson Street and
the Muddy River Poetry Review.
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